It is time for the quartet of the MBTI’s that are fond of people or at least wanting to live the best version of what means to be a human. These two groups, the ESFJ-ISFJs and the ENFJ-INFJs, are a little conflicting like the trombone and the trumpet in an orchestra. The trumpet has a more pe-pe-pe upbeat sound and the trombone a more somber po-po-po; we never claimed to be musically inclined.
It’s people lover vs ideal world wanters in Part 2 of the MBTI series where we find a dessert that is the heart and soul of your MBTI type. The trumpets are definitely the pe-pe-pe-ing ESFJ-ISFJs and the ENFJ-INFJs the trombone idealists. You HAVE to take this test if you are still feeling lost and would like to know what the heck MBTI is. It's a pseudoscience that we love second only after astrology and often go to for validation, sometimes, when chocolates need a little buddy during weep-o-clock.
Think of them as the perfect hosts at some sort of welfare party who are just the right amount of supportive and cheery and make you feel loved yet empowered at the same time. They are high on their beliefs and morals and can sell you nothing with their convictions, without blinking, if they were to start a cult. Nothing else but the forever comfort-giving kheer, payesh, or payasam that fits the ESFJs. They won’t feel like your unpaid therapist, for ESFJs do know their limits when it comes to giving and knowing when to stop. If that is not the case you have met the turbulent version and not the assertive. Comfort them for a change with a bowl of Kheer and if Kheer is not made in your home, it's time you try the comforting rice pudding.
The can-do and will-doers of the MBTI personalities, ISFJs are the elves of Santa who are diligent workers and make Christmas all that special. They are humble and unassuming and the noblest beings out there, who are always dependable friends, and will listen to you tirelessly if that means helping you feel better. ISFJs might just end up giving you a mother (mommy) complex if you had a rocky upbringing, only your therapist’s diagnosis counts. They also give off this hippie vibe, who isn’t high all the time but grounded and has a lot of love and care for the world around them. A warm zesty dessert for warm-hearted souls is fitting for the ISFJs, that refreshes yet feels cozy, like toasting your soles in front of the fireplace, once you bite into them.
They are natural leaders, think Malala and many influential changemakers in the world, all are ENFJs, think of the typical Disney stereotype like Rapunzel and her endless thirst to see the world out there especially the lights in the sky, that’s how ENFJs are, filled with main character energy. The term “I'd climb every mountain and swim every ocean”, was made because of some determined ENFJ for they will actually do that if it is in their convictions. Despite the bold going after their heart attitude, they are absolute sweethearts and very assertive, you’d give them actual mud telling them it's cake, and they might just indulge you in your joke. So, a simple tres leches cake for the ENFJ, we say simple, but combining milk in three different forms is no simple feat, that too in sweet cake loaves that soak up the juicy goodness of the milk.
The next time they give the same old speech on how they want to be Mother Teresa masquerading in an ambitious British King’s body, put a spoon towering with a scoop of the layered mousse cake into their mouth. Jokes aside, this is the rarest MBTI personality out there making up only 1.5 percent of the believers of MBTI. We respect the justice seekers and idealists, a lot, for we also love our chocolates as much as the people of Bull Street in Birmingham back in 1831. So why the chocolate mousse cake for the INFJs? Self-proclaimed misfits with hyperactive brains, kind of like pesky lawyers, the mousse cake feels like a misfit among the other desserts being so rich in chocolate; it might just make INFJs' eyes roll back into their heads in pleasure and give your ears some respite from their latest broken record like monologue.